Comments on: Ninja, please. http://blackgirlinthecity.wordpress.com/2009/07/02/ninja-please/ As Real As It Gets. Fri, 27 Nov 2009 19:27:35 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Natural_Oasis http://blackgirlinthecity.wordpress.com/2009/07/02/ninja-please/#comment-1525 Natural_Oasis Wed, 08 Jul 2009 05:08:08 +0000 http://blackgirlinthecity.wordpress.com/?p=1723#comment-1525 A deal breaker for me has always been when it appears that he is overly trying to impress me.While getting to know a guy through conversation he may speak on general topics such as family, friends, life experiences, etc. I consider myself to be a good listener so when the same story is told and you seem to switch it up a bit, I notice. I won't necessarily call him on it right then and there but I have noticed that usually he is changing his story either (in my opinion) to impress me or cover up something. But because I could be wrong I would stick around more often then not it would turn out that the guy was some what of a poser. Meaning he would embelish past experiences to make them seem more then what they really were. An extreme example would be like when guys do a female wrong and then tell the new girl, "Oh shes crazy!" But he doesn't tend to feel you in on the hell that he put her through. Another way I have learned to pick up on this is when you are around his friends pay close attention to if his friends tend to dismis what he says. Guys have a way of giving suttle hints that they are not believing what you are saying so if your guy is always stretching the truth, more often then not his friends will let it be none. A deal breaker for me has always been when it appears that he is overly trying to impress me.While getting to know a guy through conversation he may speak on general topics such as family, friends, life experiences, etc. I consider myself to be a good listener so when the same story is told and you seem to switch it up a bit, I notice. I won’t necessarily call him on it right then and there but I have noticed that usually he is changing his story either (in my opinion) to impress me or cover up something. But because I could be wrong I would stick around more often then not it would turn out that the guy was some what of a poser. Meaning he would embelish past experiences to make them seem more then what they really were. An extreme example would be like when guys do a female wrong and then tell the new girl, “Oh shes crazy!” But he doesn’t tend to feel you in on the hell that he put her through. Another way I have learned to pick up on this is when you are around his friends pay close attention to if his friends tend to dismis what he says. Guys have a way of giving suttle hints that they are not believing what you are saying so if your guy is always stretching the truth, more often then not his friends will let it be none.

]]> By: Flash http://blackgirlinthecity.wordpress.com/2009/07/02/ninja-please/#comment-1522 Flash Tue, 07 Jul 2009 12:26:02 +0000 http://blackgirlinthecity.wordpress.com/?p=1723#comment-1522 Nice! Nice!

]]> By: jasmine http://blackgirlinthecity.wordpress.com/2009/07/02/ninja-please/#comment-1509 jasmine Thu, 02 Jul 2009 09:24:57 +0000 http://blackgirlinthecity.wordpress.com/?p=1723#comment-1509 lol i had to laugh at the last part but i agree with not tolerating certain things,i went out with this guy the other day and certain things he was saying was leaving me with this wtf expression but in hindsight i think i was being abit too harsh.I've gotta work on this. But i do believe there is a guy suited for each woman,just gotta keep looking and be less criticising...slowly but surely..you'll find him lol i had to laugh at the last part but i agree with not tolerating certain things,i went out with this guy the other day and certain things he was saying was leaving me with this wtf expression but in hindsight i think i was being abit too harsh.I’ve gotta work on this.

But i do believe there is a guy suited for each woman,just gotta keep looking and be less criticising…slowly but surely..you’ll find him

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